These things said, I am also impulsively generous; and I seldom hold grudges. (I can’t remember ‘em: I move too fast.) I can be bold and surprisingly courageous: if I plunge in, I carry on; and I stand by my mistakes. I can blaze new trails and lead others on them—generally NOT down a garden path. I have Mars in Aries.
How we see ourselves affects the way we live. If the messages of our self-talk are negative, our natural good opinion of those selves suffers. We need other eyes and voices to remind us of who we are at core. Friends and family and colleagues help; but they are like the blind men who each touched a different part of the elephant: every one of them has a unique experience of us, but it’s only their take that they know.
A horoscope shows the whole picture. A good astrologer describes it without judgment, helping us to regain perspective on our traits and on our lives. If we can name them, we can reframe them—for the better.
We can change.